LOVE AND DISAPOINTMENT

LOVE and DISAPOINTMENT.

I'm having quite a blue morning but don't get the misconception that I'm some EMO. =] I'm just sick of being fedup so I thought I'd talk about a simple subject, Dissapointment. How to get to the bottom of it? How to beat it in its' own race and How to burn your bridge of these reoccurring suckers!!!? and last but not least, do I really know the answers to all of these? [lol]
Dissapointments....I'm sick of them but who isn't? COUNTLESS letdowns really stir up a good recipe for DISCOURAGEMENT. Especially when you hope and hope for the better and THE BETTER never comes around. After trials of failure and never-ending upsets, what than, can you do? You're a crying zombie in the middle of the night wondering how you got HERE again? It's a feeling you don't want to know but it's no longer your acquaintance, but your new friend....wait..by this point, shoot, your OLD friend because we can all agree that disapointments get OLD real fast. Right?

The cliche thing to say "Don't give up" because "failure is one step closer to success"...familiar?
However, things are not black OR white. Things aren't even black AND white. It sounds almost like burger king advice to say "hey kids never give up." I'm not promoting the idea of bailing out when things get rough BUT if we wanna disect the reason for the countlessness, the de ja vu of dissapointment and constant let downs than we have to THINK OUTSIDE OF OUR CHILDREN BOOKS of CLICHE ADVICE and get to the center of this.

I thought exterminating my hopes and expectations would eliminate any possible dissapointments in the future. I figured if I stopped hoping, I'd stop getting let down. I hate getting my hopes all high because when the end result is Freakin' FISH POOP I wanna tazer SOMEONE or SOMETHING!!!! ...but like I once said you can stop hoping all you want but hopes build on their own. So X that out. Eliminating your high hopes is a short term solution. So than you think your just gonna DEAL WITH IT but who are you kidding?? Why learn to deal with horse "shhh"?? You can learn to deal but YOU ARE who you are. You can't run from your own preferences. If you don't like it than you shouldn't deal with it.

So now what??NOW WHAT CAN YOU DO!!! I'm not a former dissapointment slayer whose succeeded in the many scorchering obstacles of dissapointments BUT I am a member of the Sucks to be Dissapointed Club!!! And as fellow members of this club, who knows better than us as to what NOT to do!???
CHANGES!!! CHANGES!!! CHANGES!!!!! You can't mope around about the same thing day after day...night after night. You make changes!!! The course of things repeat according to the circumstances. Make changes on your part and EXPECT CHANGES ON THEIR PART. Once you've done all that you can ON YOUR PART along with all that you could deliver in this relationship...the rest is NOT in your control. So yes you may still end up dissapointment if your other half SUCKS. haha ok jk but really and truly, if your other half sucks...consider the following: 1.) He/she doesn't want to put effort 2.) He's/she's NOT gonna put effort and 3.) Maybe he/she never will so if you can ACCEPT further dissapointment than do what you will.
In relationships YES you will face hardships, flawed characteristics, peeving situations and yeah, disapoinments. When you get married you sign a contract, make a promise, seal the deal and SIGN UP for all that bogusness..correct? But until further ado..your NOT MARRIED (I assume)...So make sure that you seal the deal with someone whose flaws you find (to the very least) BAREABLE. If you love your girlfriend despite her constant bickering and thats a flaw your okay with (because hate to break it to u but girls come with that) than MARVELOUS! SEAL THE DEAL! If you love your boyfriend but he's a creeping cheater than....study your situation...If thats something you wanna sign up for. The whole thing about disapointment is..the longer you stick around the longer it melts on you. Don't accept INTOLERABLE flaws...well, I'm not saying "DON'T" but if you want to cut the SPECIFIC dissapointment in the long run...than feel its WRATH NOW, and hurt for X amount of days or months instead of LATER, as in everyday for the rest of your life!!!